How I Grin and Bear It

Having a sticker to hang in my car so I can park in the "Handicapped" spot definitely has its advantages.  Naturally, the parking is generally closer.  We don't have to carry packages as far from the store.  And, when people realize that I actually have a right to be using a Handicapped sticker, the help and generosity are abundant.  In fact, I am constantly amazed at the kindness of friends and strangers, alike

The interesting thing is that when people feel you are justified, they can't seem to help enough.  Counter that with the angered looks and sense of animosity if you are viewed as someone who is "Only taking advantage of someone else's sticker."  In short, few of us are willing to allow 'pirating,' especially when it comes to those who are less-capable or with fewer advantages.

Mine is not an obvious challenge, so I've had my share of some of those angered looks.  I try, most of the time, to allow for other peoples' lack of knowledge  [though, I am, admittedly not yet an angel].  So, most of the time, I grin and bear it.  Deep down, though, I can wallow in my own secret knowledge that disabilities suck.