Posted: 4/22/2008 at 12:46 PM
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I use a white cane for identification, mainly when I'm traveling by myself or using public transportation. It's funny how people see the cane and assume I cannot see at all. On the subway I get people who come up to me asking if I need help or who tell me what train is coming next. Most of the time it is just easier to thank them instead of trying to explain that I can see where I'm going. It is nice to know that people are willing to help.
There was one time when I was on my cell phone when my train came. This woman grabbed me by the arm and tried to "help" me on the train. I have to admit, this took me by surprise and I was not very polite. I shock her off and told her "Get off of me!" I probably would have been nicer if I hadn't had such a bad week.
More recently, I was on the train and right as I was almost to my stop a fellow passenger asked me "Are you blind?" (she must have seen me look at my watch) There is not a short answer for that question. Yes I am legally blind which means I have less than 20/200 vision in my better eye. But most people assume that blindness means you can't see anything. If I hadn't been about to get off I would have tried to explain all this to her. Instead I just said something like "I have some vision. I can see a little bit." I want to take every opportunity to educate people about people with disabilities but I realize you can't always take time out to lecture people. Sometimes you just have to let it go and let these people go on thinking what they think. Any thoughts?
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Just goes to show you we have a long way to go in improving public knowledge about disability. Thanks for sharing
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