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Just The Way You Are...

Posted by: Walter Schmidt, VSO CPA CTM on 2/15/2008 at 07:29 PM

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Just The Way You Are...

A water bearer in India had two large pots, each hung on each end of a pole which he carried across his neck. One of the pots had a crack in it, and while the other pot was perfect and always delivered a full portion of water at the end of the long walk from the stream to the master's house, the cracked pot arrived only half full.

For a full two years this went on daily, with the bearer delivering only one and a half pots full of water to his master's house. Of course, the perfect pot was proud of its accomplishments, perfect to the end for which it was made. But the poor cracked pot was ashamed of its own imperfection, and miserable that it was able to accomplish only half of what it had been made to do. After two years of what it perceived to be a bitter failure, it spoke to the water bearer one day by the stream.

"I am ashamed of myself, and I want to apologize to you."

"Why?" asked the bearer. "What are you ashamed of?"

"I have been able, for these past two years, to deliver only half my load because this crack in my side causes water to leak out all the way back to your master's house. Because of my flaws, you have to do all of this work, and you don't get full value from your efforts," the pot said.

The water bearer felt sorry for the old cracked pot, and in his compassion he said, "As we return to the master's house, I want you to notice the beautiful flowers along the path."

Indeed, as they went up the hill, the old cracked pot took notice of the sun warming the beautiful wild flowers on the side of the path, and this cheered it some. But at the end of the trail, it still felt bad because it had leaked out half its load, and so again it apologized to the bearer for its failure.

The bearer said to the pot, "Did you notice that there were flowers only on your side of your path, but not on the other pot's side?

That's because I have always known about your flaw, and I took advantage of it. I planted flower seeds on your side of the path, and every day while we walk back from the stream, you've watered them.

For two years I have been able to pick these beautiful flowers to decorate my master's table. Without you being just the way you are, he would not have this beauty to grace his house..."

 

p.s. just learned a posted blog doen't automatically include ones name [ smile ] Walt Schmidt 

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  • Debbie wrote on Feb 15, 2008 at 8:16 PM
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    hi ? was he on pot talking to his pots? [kidding]. welcome to disaboom if we haven't already met, your name is not listed yet. :) xoxo


  • Jessie wrote on Feb 16, 2008 at 5:20 AM
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    I don't know if you created this story on your own or if another wrote it...but...it's absolutely beautiful!  Thank you for helping me and others see the "obvious"!


  • Deacon Patrick Jones wrote on Feb 16, 2008 at 5:33 AM
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    Sometimes we are exactly what we're cracked up to be, aye? Grin.


  • Walter Schmidt, VSO CPA CTM wrote on Feb 16, 2008 at 9:33 AM
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    ...I think the name now appears.


    It is an old Taoist tale.


    --- Regards, Walt Schmidt


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