Last post Wed, May 14 2008 10:20 AM by jimmyb. 2 replies.
my name is Brittany gregory, i live in California, i'm 27 yrs old i'm hearing inspired by disability, i love swimming and hanging out with loving ones, sometimes i like watching woman wnba, smile.i am caring, responsible, humble,and i have care for those who care about me, no matter the situation or condition, i dont care there stage of disability or ability..all i care about is love,feelings and passions.. i left my boy friend last 3 months because he cheated on me, i saw my ex-bf having sex with my best friend rita, i left him and my best friend, i'm single now looking for a nice and loving man that his ready for relatioship, and ready to love me and care for me till the end of life time, i dont care the age, age is just a number what matter's most is love and understanding, if you really care for my love you should get back on my sn and chat with me and know me more, before we can go out for dinner...... my yahoo is, britt_gregs@yahoo.com or ........ pls try and get back and chat with me and you can also get back to me with your yahoo im as well as your personal email.
Dear Brittany,
I have a POV that may not be exactly what you want to hear, but may be helpful to you in the long run. In my experience, of 25 years of marriage, partners, whether they are disabled or not, need to "lean on each other," while each stands alone with the strength of his or herself. Looking for someone to lean on can be a way that will end in your never finding the ability to be your own person.
In order to have a successful relationship, in my experience and in watching marriages and relationships fail or succeed, those who make it are those who are their own person first, and then find another with whom they can meld and build a new union. Right now, you are speaking and feeling from the pain of that awful infidelity and betrayal, but looking for support from another is probably not the right way to find real happiness.
It is my hope that you can build confidence and security with the person you are, and joy in your relationship with your son. This is a hard thing to do, certainly. Education, time with people who are 'just friends,' finding out what you are about on your own can all play a role. Even meditation can help. At that point, it seems to me, you will be ready to enter into a lasting relationship with another person while retaining the individuality that you have worked to develop.
This is, of course, just my opinion, and you may find happiness and strength with another and grow together. But I thought I would share these thoughts so that you might have another perspective.
My very best wishes to you, and warmest regards. Bonnie
Brittany,
I read your story, and I truly feel for you. There is something about GUYS that just seems SO CRAZY. They can be surrounded by beauty (and beauty is YOU), they not only don't welcome and appreciate it...they look for OTHER BEAUTY. GOD, WHAT IS WRONG WITH THEM? This, Brittany, is coming from a sufferer of Severe Traumatic Brain Injury 20 months ago. AND.......I am a man too!!!! I LOVE BEAUTY TOO........but I RESPECT IT......AND WELCOME IT WITH HUGS AND SOUL-SHARING!
If ya want any further advice or help, Email me at jimmyandjazzy@yahoo.com We can share Life Experiences and stories.....
Thanks.....
