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RE: friendship

Last post Tue, Jun 17 2008 11:22 PM by ArizonaSherry. 12 replies.


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  • raulbeas raulbeas
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    • Posted: Tue, Jun 17 2008 3:15 PM

    • Well it may be me or am I the only one? does it seem thing are getting a little crazy as you get older, i mean sex, is almost gone, aches and pains seem to be more frequent. Man what is up with that?


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  • TriDog TriDog
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    • Posted: Tue, Jun 17 2008 3:18 PM

    • raulbeas:
      The comments of man i wish you were normal. or i should have found a real man who can do what i want. 

      Kick her to the curb and move on.  It's only gonna get ugly.


    • It's a Great Life if you just don't weak'n!
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  • NineLives NineLives
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    • Posted: Tue, Jun 17 2008 3:44 PM

    • No your not the only one! I agree with tridog. Youve dealt with your situation or are dealing with your situation and you dont need someone that cant deal with your situation or is negative like that. Move on!! I believe there is someone out there for everyone. You just might have to try harder than other people!


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  • DavidZ DavidZ
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    • Posted: Tue, Jun 17 2008 4:19 PM

    • Sex and touch aren't exactly the same thing, but it seems like you're not getting even a shred of the basic minimum you need of either.  I agree with TriDog.  It's always a risk to move on, because you are giving up SOMETHING, but you've got to believe you deserve someone better for you and that you'll find her.


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  • rainey826 rainey826
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    • Posted: Tue, Jun 17 2008 4:39 PM

    • never say never , i believe there is someone for everyone ~~~~~~~~~rainey xo

    • anyone who says that sunshine is the only thing that brings happiness has never danced in the RAIN !
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  • sandyfreytag sandyfreytag
    Posts: 799
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    • Posted: Tue, Jun 17 2008 5:21 PM

    •  Well I guess we all seem to agree with TriDog. I know you probably love her, but she must not love you in the way you need. For her to say that to you is down right not called for. Kick her, Kick her, Kick her to the curb. Take Care Now, Sandy

      In My Humble Opinion
      Any Day Now!
       


    • If you can not care about yourself, how do you expect someone else to care about you?

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  • bonniethesurvivor bonniethesurvivor
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    • Posted: Tue, Jun 17 2008 6:03 PM

    • OUT.   OUT.   OUT WITH THIS WOMAN.   Age and sex and don't need to get worse as time goes on.  Find someone worth your while.  You can, and will.  She is not worth it! My very very best wishes.  bonnie


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  • Becky Becky
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    • Posted: Tue, Jun 17 2008 6:49 PM

    • I may have missed the point of this post, but I don't think so. I think he's saying that when you get older, you have sex less often and hurt more. Maybe he's the one that doesn't want sex. I don't know, it's none of my business. Yes, that's what happens to some people. However, their are pharmaceuticals to correct both problems, so I wouldn't hesitate seeing my physican about them!

       

      The first thing that came into my head when I read this post was, my grandmother used to say "It's hell to get old." She was saying that when she was in her 80s and 90s. She lived till age 94! She was a tough old gal. I miss her.

       

      Becky

       


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  • Norma Carroll Norma Carroll
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    • Posted: Tue, Jun 17 2008 6:49 PM

    • I know that when my accident happened at age 40...........when my husband and I would disagree about something.........his response was " who........but me.......would stay with you the way you are now { a paraplegic with no feeling below the waist }. Now of course I know that this statement had to do more with his own insecurtities but at a time I was trying to work out my own issues with being feminine.......a new and foriegn sexuality..........they were very hurtful. Needless to say......we didn't last very long. It's just NOT what he'd signed up for.........we;d only been married for less than three years...........Anyway......for me........aches and pains certainly have taken over........and sex...........that's a drink......right ?........Peace and love.......Norma

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  • raulbeas raulbeas
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    • Posted: Tue, Jun 17 2008 7:12 PM

    • yup your both right, i guess i just wanted to complain. a fool speak his mind before he knows what he is trying to say. I have learned much in life but some things i just never learn. I guess i'm way off the perfect mark. so how hot is Arizona, it's so hot we no longer have birds singing in the trees we now have plenty of rotiserie chicken for everyone. Hungry! Thanks for your thoughts. 


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  • bonniethesurvivor bonniethesurvivor
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    • Posted: Tue, Jun 17 2008 7:16 PM

    • Sorry, Becky, but those are remarks, made by the woman in the relationship and recounted in the earlier thread, that should not be made at any age.  Many people have sex into their late old age.  Others don't, but those remarks are uncalled for, and do not reflect a loving atmosphere.  Aches and pains can come with age, but so do wisdom and shared beauty, for the right two people.  It is uncalled for for this woman to treat this man in such an ugly fashion when he is still hurting.  Nanal has an understanding, forgiving nature, but that does not mean that this man should miss out on what could be a wonderful relationship in his more senior years.  And if he does not find a partner, it would still be better than to suffer the abuse he is currently experiencing.


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  • Becky Becky
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    • Posted: Tue, Jun 17 2008 7:28 PM

    • I am not thinking clearly here. I had to take some Ativan earlier for my PET scan and I'm still kind of loopy and tired. I must have missed the other post? I'm not quite sure what's going on here. Sorry if I offended anyone. I will come back later when my head is clearer.

       

      Becky


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  • ArizonaSherry ArizonaSherry
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    • Posted: Tue, Jun 17 2008 11:22 PM

    • Becky, you're not alone I read  and understood it the same as you.  I was getting lost and thought I was all loopy. lol  We evidently missed something he wrote elsewhere.

       

      Raul, if I understand this correctly then something is all wrong!  Do you wear cowboy boots?


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