Last post Fri, May 02 2008 9:18 PM by GiGi. 32 replies.
Violeta,
Hang in there kid. You're only 18. You've still got many, many years in the game. It's only the first inning.
The best advice I can give is to be active. You have to be out there doing things. Have hobbys and activities that will make you an interesting person. From a guy's point of view, there is nothing attractive about a beautiful young woman with no interest. Watching Judge Judy does not qualify as a hobby.
I didn't meet my wife until I was in my late 30's. Along the way I dated off and on. Some serious long term, some just ships passing in the night... Either way I head a good time. You'll find someone. Just be happy, outgoing, active and more importantly, be yourself. Phoney women get used and kicked to the curb real fast. You don't want that.
I am a mildly autistic 33 year old male in Connecticut looking for a girlfriend/fealefriend in the New york metro area or connecticut
I've had trouble meeting anyone that could accept y disability too,
You are so right! I have mild cp and was sure I would be an "old maid" because no one would want me long term. I made sure the few guys I dated knew about my "limp" so they wouldn't be taken off guard. All my AB friends got married right out of high school, so I figured it just wasn't going to happen to me. I was 23 when I decided I was never going to get married. (an old maid in those days) When I had arrived at this conclusion, life pulled a good one on me!
I had sworn off all blind dates but then got talked into going on one just one more time. What a mistake that would have been if I hadn't-he was AB and quite a HUNK. I have been married to that wonderful guy for 35 years .We have two grown children who are a great help to us both as we age. I have to use a cane now and, to my husband, I am still as beautiful as ever.
Gloria
