Last post Sun, May 18 2008 12:07 PM by peter98362. 18 replies.
Calvary greetings in the name of God, its my pleasure checking out your profile this morning and dropping a message for you, I am new here and i'm a God fearing man seeking for someone to share about life with. I will advise you check out my profile also, if interested, feel free to contact me at my personal email handycolt@yahoo.com tell me more of you and also share some pictures of yourself with me there. God bless.
i can't speak for anyone but myself, but being in a wheelchair, I get approached constantly by people when I'm in public, and i've had to become very cautious in my interactions. most ppl want to either find out the gory details of chair life or say something about the inspirational moment you caused them to have at the grocery store. so maybe this fella in "great shades" was trying to avoid that kind of interaction. I know I would, and it doesn't mean I have some "wall" up to keep everyone out, just some of them. heh.
I totally agree with timm, that attraction comes with self confidence, humor, and personal authority once you develop that (guys) women will come in droves. I no longer approach women, I try to behave in a way that they come to me. By being sort of the "class clown" if they dont come around, no sweat, I do what Im doing regardless.
I try not to worry so much what other people think about me anymore, but thats easier said then done at times.
Im still a work in progress I still fight loosing weight, been a long time since I been skinny. But again, a work in progress. Women seem to like the naughty boy type of guy, oh some will probably deny it, but deep down, they always seem to be drawn to those type of guys dont you ladies
As for your sustutation by not talking directly to that guy but to his friend, it was like treating him like a coat rack or something. We all been there, people talk at you not to you.
Best thing to do is learn from that, and when the opportunity arises for you to meet someone else in that setting you'll know better than talking over someone to someone else while the subject your talking about is sitting right there! He can speak for his self
