Last post Tue, Sep 23 2008 3:32 AM by Liz07. 79 replies.
Ok so I have my left foot amputated below the knee. Everything else about me as normal as it ever was. It seems like whenever I go out and meet a woman, either specifically or at random, I get the same question. Something along the lines of "does your dick still work?". They usually aren't that blunt and they often try thier hardest to at least wait an hour before they ask, but you can almost see them asking the question in thier head. Quick glances to the region and the smell of burnt rubber from wheels spinning. You know what I mean? It happens to me so often, I'm wondering if im the only on it happens to. Let me know if it's just me. Thanks.
Mike, you have to start hanging around places that require women to have at least a passible I.Q. What in the world would losing a limb have to do with sexual function? I can understand with someone with paralysis, but missing part of your leg? Any woman who would ask that question is just plain dumb. Maybe you are just reading too much into things. Have you been with a woman since your injury? Are you worrying about performance issues? If you are ok that way, just be happy that they are thinking of you as a sexual being and show them how well you can do.
I'm not trying to make light of your situation, Mike. I have been there myself. The irony of my situation is that I can't move anything below my neck, but I get awe-inspiring reflex erections, and can maintain as long as there is stimulation. I say if you have all these women falling all over you, that you start showing your stuff, and keep us all posted in a blog. (Details, we want details!)
All the best,
Jon
Hey there, I'm a female and have been a RBK amputee for almost 7 years...I have had men ask me "How do you have sex?" I say to them..."How do YOU have sex!?" this shuts 'em up.
Hi,
It sounds like you are around a bunch of ignorant people. They have some nerve asking a question like that.
You should only have those in your life who prove they deserve to be there. If you give people all of you, and they take and take, not giving anything back, it's time to move on. I can't believe the nerve some people have. I'm sorry that happened to you.
So Mike.
The question is till on the table. Does your dick still work?.
The world wants to know......
*LOL*
See, I'm a smart-ass ball-buster. Something I hope my son picks up (he's 12, SB, uses a w/c) when he's older.
Here's a few "answers" to the inconsiderate questions (although I agree that the people asking are morons):
LMAO!! You two are such males....
Last time I checked I was a girl!! *LOL* (At least that's what my dh told me last night! *LOL*)
Holy shit dudes, ROTFLMAO..... Seriously... Rolling
Here's another "male" opinion. I live in a college town with college bars, this happens to me a lot too. I've noticed two things. Older women just tend to assume that there's always something u can do for them, and proceed as planned. Younger women, however, may lack confidence, experience, or just don't know any better. But they are obviously curious, and I've found that curiousity usually leads to discovery. Don't think they're ignorant, or not worth while, they just need to be taught (so to speak). I agree with Jon, start swingin' lumberjack
And, "If I told u, I'd have to F u"? I'm stealin' yer line, that's awesome
Tim
tsh3406:And, "If I told u, I'd have to F u"? I'm stealin' yer line, that's awesome Tim
*LOL* Tim, if it helps you, you're welcomed to it.
that question i think everybody gets but i been having mine since i was 7 years old and i have a man and we do it like every one else which is none of people business
Well, I was fortunate enough to be blessed with a good partner before I lost the leg. It was never even a question. I was happy to be alive and able to spend the rest of my life with her. The AK amputation HAS left us with some really versatile choices for positions.
Maybe you can tell them that your penis receives more blood flow now that your body doesn't have to perfuse both legs.
Let 'em wonder after that.
