We often take it for granted, but it’s one of the most effective sex tools around – your voice. Powerful and provocative, the sexy noises emanating from your voice exude your sexuality, letting your pleasures and desires be known like nothing else. Every person has the potential to unleash a moan, groan or scream in expressing their ecstasy.
Throughout history, we humans have well understood the power and potency of sound.
Just look at the Latin roots of words related to sound. It’s easy to see the supernatural element that abounds. The Latin “cantare,” for example, is the root of the English “cantor,” which is usually translated as meaning “to sing.” Its original meaning, however, is thought to be “to produce by magic.” Equally intriguing is the fact that Latin’s “carmen,” usually interpreted as “poem,” originally meant “magic formula.”
In making noise, we are dealing with the forces of the cosmos. It’s no wonder it’s said that we become one with the universe when we make love. Heaven and earth apparently do collide as you are launched into bliss, well, at least if you’re aurally engaged on your way there.
Music, words, vowels, and sounds have long been considered the colossal creative forces of the universe. The classic Chinese text Tao Te Ching declared centuries ago that sexual energy is a force of nature that keeps the “earth circling the heavens.” According to the ancients, the impact of sounds on us is nothing less than spiritual power. Talk about becoming a god or goddess in the bedroom!
Seriously, though, your sense of hearing and truly feeling the rhythm or soul of a sound in any way can make for the most powerful sensations in making love. After all, sound, including a lack of it, influences everything we experience. Generally speaking, the auditory impressions we absorb on a daily – and nightly – basis can impact our overall well-being, affecting our physical and mental health for better or for worse.
And naturally, as any good sexologist will tell you, this has a ripple effect on your sex life. What goes on in the bedroom is not immune to what goes on outside of it. We bring all of it into our sensual space, and that includes the delightful and distressful sounds we’re inundated with on a constant basis. These can influence the heart-pounding thrills you seek.
What’s marvelous about your love chamber is that you control the sound effects, setting the aura for amour with your aural efforts. When it comes to your pleasure pursuits, sound drives your sexual intimacy, converting acts into an essential force of nature.
According to the ancients, sound works with your subtle body. By subtle body, they mean your psycho-spiritual body. If we look at the ‘self’ in this way, we can see that sound works with our energetic, mental and conscious bodies – basically our life force. The beauty in this is that this is the case for everybody.
So dare to gasp, sigh, wail, scream, whimper, giggle, or cry for joy the next time you tap your sensual nature! You’re super sexual – and that’s worth getting loud about!
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